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| The Bad Guy Aura: Do Bad Guys Really Win In The Dating Game? | May 18, 2009, 4:57 pm | visits: 53 | wordcount: 561
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By Mary Ann Tordecilla
So why do girls really fall in love with the bad guys? We have seen it in movies. The beautiful girls always pick the bad guys. The bad guys always have the beautiful girls. The bad guys always win the girl and the nice guys are left losers in the game. This is quite a puzzle for most but if you examine closer, there is really something about bad guys that makes all the girls wanting them.
Interest is what keeps bad guys on the hot seat. Sometimes bad guys are hard to understand. They are complex. They do what they want. They have their own rules to follow. They listen to no one. They developed their own code of conduct. And this is exactly what girls love about them. The spark of complexity is what keeps bad guys an interesting subject. They attract girls who are intrigued by them and who want to know more about their complexity.
Self-confidence and assurance. These are the other traits of a bad guy. They are sure of what they are doing and they do not really care what others may think. Just by having these traits, bad guys do not have to be good looking or in shape to be attractive. Just by their self-confidence and assurance of themselves and what they do, they are admired by the ladies around them.
The challenge in bad guys. Sometimes, because of their complexity and self-confidence, they do not easily show their emotions to women. And this is another thing most women like about bad guys. They post challenge to every women that is why they are attracted mostly to bad guys. Women love challenge and they are challenged to a bad guy's traits.
These are the things that make-up a bad guy. They are self-confident, tough, hard to deal with and powerful. For the nice guys who are not like these at all, it does not mean that you cannot get a girl you want. But it does not mean too that you will have to turn to a bad guy to get the girl. You just have to see that these traits can also be adapted and combined to your present traits when it comes to dating women.
I am saying that most women are intrigued, challenged, and are attracted to guys who are not that transparent. Nice guys are always caring and gentleman. It is now time to combine these bad guy-nice guy- traits to attract women. How?
Learn to be a mystery to women. Do not let a girl know everything about you through showing who you are on a first date. Learn to control your emotions. Remember that dating is still a game. Wait for women to express their feelings first. Remain a puzzle to them.
Yes you can be nice to women but have self-confidence with you all the time. Confidence can be showed through many ways by showing to women that you control the date. All decisions and plans are dependent in you but you are open to their opinion and suggestions.
There are no exact rules in dating but you can come up with all the strategies you want. The best strategy is to analyze what attracts women most. You can use this in dating and through practice you will soon realize that trait is one of the very important factors involve in a successful dating.
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