By Michael Dat
If you've ever wondered why men who aren't as smart or attractive as you seem to have more luck with women, then you're probably doing a few things wrong. Men make many common mistakes that quash their chances of hitting it off with otherwise great girlfriend material. Check this list to see if you've been doing it wrong all this time.
Mistake #1: Being Too Nice. Yup, you can be too nice. "Nice" guys make great friends, but it's hard for women to feel attracted to you if you're nothing but polite and boring. It's sad, but true – it's no wonder why women prefer bad boys over nice guys.
Mistake #2: Trying To Convince Her To Like You. When a woman isn't interested in you and you try to "convince" her to feel differently, you're wasting your time. You can't reason your way into her heart – after all, if she doesn't "feel" it for you, you can't expect her to change by being "reasonable."
Mistake #3: Depending On Her Approval. This goes without saying, but nobody likes a kiss-up. Women won't like you if you keep trying to get their approval or "permission." Of course, this doesn't mean you have to treat her badly, but kissing up is just plain annoying.
Mistake #4: "Buying" Your Way To Her Affection. You've probably treated a woman to dinner and bought her nice things with hopes that she'll like you for the attention. She won't – in fact, it'll give her the idea that you're trying to hide your insecurities behind your money. Women see this as manipulation, and it's a clear red flag for them.
Mistake #5: Laying Out All Your Cards Too Early. Here's a fact: attractive women get a lot of attention from men, and are used to confessions. If you tell her how you feel too early, she'll think you're just like everyone else!
Mistake #6: Thinking Women Feel Attraction The Same Way You Do. This is a no-brainer, but men instantly feel attracted when they see a young, beautiful, sexy woman. But if you think women are turned on primarily by physical appearances too, then you're dead wrong.
Mistake #7: Thinking It's All About Money And Looks. Many men think that their money and looks, or lack thereof, dictates the kind of women suited for them. Having this limiting mindset might make you miss out on "the one."
Mistake #8: Letting Her Walk All Over You. This is similar to Mistake #3. Some men give their power to women in hopes of getting their approval. Well, news flash: Nobody likes a wussy.
Mistake #9: Not Knowing What To Do In Each Situation. Here's a tip: women are about ten times better than you when it comes to reading body language. So when you're secretly wanting to kiss her on your first date, she knows it (and probably doesn't mind). But if you act all nervous and don't do a thing, you ruin everything.
Mistake #10: Not Getting Help. While it's true that no two women are the same, it's also true that if you don't do your homework, you'll keep getting disappointed. Keep reading articles like this one to hone your social skills and improve your chances.
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