By Scott Patterson
Alright man…we've all had that fantasy.
You see a beautiful woman across the bar surrounded other guys. In your head you wonder what it would be like to be with her and date her. Probably you can secretly imagine yourself what it would be like to have sex with her.
Well I've had this fantasy. And I am pretty sure have as well.
But there is a harsh reality this fantasy- it's pretty hard to land a hot girl. Furthermore it's even harder to keep hold of her.
Fortunately there are a few ways you can become the guy who has the hot girl at his side.
Tip #1- Exude confidence
Without a doubt, confidence is an absolute must for attracting and dating a hot woman. In every situation, you MUST exude confidence around her. Even if you don't feel comfortable in certain places, you must be able to at least fake a bit of confidence.
If you're one of those types of guys who doesn't feel particularly confident, you must practice building this trait. There are a lot of books and audio CDs which can help you build confidence. So go grab a copy and train yourself to be confident.
Tip #2- Improve Yourself
In addition to working on your confidence, you have to improve yourself to the point to where you stand out from other guys.
The one thing that sets men who date hot women apart from other dudes is the fact that they have their own unique style. Whether it's the way they dress or their attitude, these guys are a cut above the rest.
To improve yourself, you have to do a bit of self-exploration and find out what makes you unique. Then work hard to create this image for yourself.
Tip #3- Be Masculine
When you date a hot woman, you are with the epitome of femininity. Now in order to be with her, you have to be the exact opposite of her.
In other words, you have to masculine!
Now when I say masculine, I don't mean you have to be some 6 and ½ foot tall monstrosity. Instead you should you should display all the qualities that women love in guys.
This means you should be confident, aggressive, candid, funny and a bit cocky. The more you can do display the classic signs of "being a guy", the more she'll be into you.
Tip #4- You Must Have a Large Social Circle
Hot women like to be with guys they consider to be "movers and shakers". These are the guys who seem to know everybody in the room and get a lot of attention.
To cultivate this personality, you have to be willing to get out there and make friends. In other words, you have to work on attracting both guys and girls to your social circle.
By having a lot of friends, you'll increase your social value to women and will create a competitive environment among them.
Now remember all of these four tips are within your reach. While this might take a bit of hard work, the pay off is well worth it.
If you can step and work on these skills, you'll become the guy with the hot woman on his arm.
Are you ready for this challenge?
About the Author: Take the challenge! Grab Scott Patterson's free ebook: Seduction Secrets…Revealed!, and learn a step-by-step system for dating hot women.
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