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| Biggest Confidence Mistakes That Keep You Lonely | October 25, 2009, 3:57 pm | visits: 4 | wordcount: 499
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By Gregory Frost
The first mistake that most people are making is that they are not adequately prepared for the date. What you need to do is to actually look at how you dress and how you present yourself, because this is the most important thing. First impression really count when it comes to the first date. You need to have clothes that match, clothes that fit you and make sure that you are wearing something tailored to the event. You do not wear a t shirt and shorts to a dinner, nor do you wear a suit to a beach party. You need to be normal and not weird about things.
Do not try too hard and look like an extra from a James Bond film when you show up for the first date. The next thing that you need to do is to actually be yourself. One problem with most people that actually go on dates is that they often bring their representative instead of the real deal. If you behave like a millionaire playboy or play girl on the first date, you often find yourself in the deal of having to actually keep up the whole game for the duration of your relationship with that person. You need to be real and bring the real you because you do not want to be surprised later on.
You need to be yourself, and this is perhaps is the most important thing when it comes to the first date. Be real to yourself, and come in as comfortable as you can. Pretending to be someone else often gets you in the position where you are often uncomfortable and even awkward in the first date and this can bite you back, because this weird behaviour will often translate to them not liking you at all. So, the best advice here is that you should not be pretentious, affect a Scottish accent and do the things that you would not normally do. If you are out there to impress someone, then you are not on a date of equals, and in this case, you will always be at a disadvantage.
The other thing that you should consider is that you need to be able to not try so hard. Trying so hard makes it obvious to the other person, especially when you are trying to get into their pants. If you are doing that, then you should not be on the date in the first place. Hungry wolves are really the most obvious people in the world, and that is the last thing that you should do. It really turns the other person off, and makes you come off as someone who is either desperate or cheap. So these are some of the mistakes that you could be making in the first date that is reducing your chances to get into a quality relationship with the other person. Once you are able to reduce your mistakes, then you will find your dates coming along much better.
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