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| How Confidence Can Get You Invited In | October 26, 2009, 6:08 pm | visits: 0 | wordcount: 496
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By Gregory Frost
When most people have the first date, the first thing that guys think of when they meet an attractive woman is that they want to get invited in after they send her to her door, and that is a journey that is best traveled in steps. The chances that you are actually invited in is really dependent on you and you alone, and how you behave as a person on a date will determine how much they like you, how much they are attracted to you in a physical and what kind of longevity factor you have with the woman on your side.
Ok, so you are on the date. What do you do? First and foremost, you need to have these two characteristics on your side. You need to be fun or funny. You need to be confident or controlled. You need to be smooth or smart. This is really an either or and this is because as men, we are all built quite differently from one another. There may be smart, confident guys, or there could be fun and smooth guys as well. These are the six weapons you need to have on hand, and at the very least, you need to come in with at least two of them on your side.
Notice, that I did not mention that you need to be good looking or have a good physique and this is really because of the fact that this is really not as important as you think it is. The next thing that you need to do is to show that you are not a guy with just one thing on your mind. You have to look into her eyes when you talk to her, and not other parts of her body if you can. You have to maintain as much eye contact as you can and you need to arrest her interest. Talk not like you are interested, but talk when you are interested. There is a difference between talking too much and talking too little. You have to know whether or not she wants to know more about you and you have to balance this with being inquisitive with her life as well.
Women are attracted to a man who is genuinely interested and not one who is just trying to get her into bed. You also need to master the art of body language and this is not just restricted to you knowing how to read her, but using your own body language to arouse her interest. Try to move in close when you are talking to her but not too close that it seems that you are learning. You need to find out how magnetic the two of you are and if she draws away then you either need to tweak your game plan or even re assess whether or not the date is going well. These are some of the ways you can get invited in after the first date.
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