By Gregory Frost
There are always mistakes that men make in the game of love and this article will look at the one biggest mistake that they do make. This is the reason why the game of love is one that is so difficult for them. In fact, looking at the statistics of the world, men rate that the whole dating game is an unbalanced one, and it is one that is tipped to the favour of the women most of the time. What you need to know is that there are fundamentals to the whole dating game, and that there is a tiny little power struggle going on all the time between men and women.
This is the power struggle that happens for one reason and one reason only. This is because men are much too worried about the overall outcome of the whole date and they become desperate. You cannot always want to justify the means with the end, and this means that you should not be chasing too hard, because the woman will be always far ahead of you and once you get there, you will be out of breadth and be unable to do anything else but watch her walk away.
This is because you need to saunter to the goal. Relax, take your time and make sure that she knows that you are in no rush. Desperation is something that they can smell on a man a mile away, and this is the smell that they capitalise on and use to their advantage. It makes them feel good that they are wanted from all angles and this is why they become the Holy Grail of their own and you are Indiana Jones on the other end of the cliff with a whip and a pack of natives chasing you with fire spears.
You need to make it seem that you are interested, but not interested at the same time. The whole devil may care, caution to the wind thing is something that women find inertly intriguing and at the end of the day, they may even be confused by a guy who is not interested in chasing them to the ends of the earth. This is where you can actually turn the tide of the battle and make them actually go after you. This is where things get interesting for you.
Remember, never be bogged down by the details of the date. So what if she seems to be cold and uninterested in you, even if it is the third date. Then respond with icicles on your own and make her your own deep freeze project. If she really sods off, then you are better off for it. Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, and there is no point keeping a pretty fish in your tank, when she is a piranha waiting to bite you or causing you grief. In the end of the day, you have to be in control of the situation.
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